So, if we can’t even communicate with “them” (as if teenagers are some sort of different species, rather than just group of individuals) on the one subject we all live for, would the problem be with “them”, or “us”?
“They” seem to be communicating just fine.
We tell them not to believe everything they read; then we ask them to write things for us to read, and we believe them.
If someone had given me a sex survey in my early adolescence, I would have been offended and filled it out as though I were Puritan.
If someone had given me a sex survey in my late adolescence, I would have lied, and then used it as a check list.
If someone were to give me a sex survey now, I would likely be inclined to use my creative writing abilities to make it entertaining for the reader.
Language discord is a sick thing, dude.